Vaught’s note: Since this is Valentine’s Day, I thought this would be the perfect time to share this story of true love — both for UK basketball and a daughter for her mother — with you. Enjoy and appreciate every moment of life for how precious it is.
By TINA COX
For as long as I can remember UK Basketball has dictated my schedule from November through March. It has determined what events I would attend, what time my family would eat, it is my normal.
I can still remember coming into the house this past October going into my Mom’s room, plopping on the bed and giving her details of my night at the Kentucky Basketball Women’s Clinic. The season was getting ready to begin and I was so ready for my favorite time of the year!!
Mom had just moved back to Kentucky after 30 years. She had been here for March Madness and the championship this past year. We celebrated together, we bought T-shirts, we laughed and discussed the upcoming season. I know she probably didn’t share my intense love for Wildcats but she listened always. For 30 years she knew not to call me during games but would always discuss what was happening with “my Cats” (as she called them) during every conversation. This was my normal.
On Oct. 21 this past year my life changed. My mom was killed while crossing Main Street in Danville. My normal would never be the same.
During the weeks following her death the only time I could escape reality was when I listened to sports radio. I will always be thankful to you, Mark Buerger and Matt Jones for helping me escape the pain I was feeling for a few hours every week.
This season has been a different one for UK fans. Some are aggravated, some confused and some still hopeful. For this UK fan this season has provided the only normal I have from before my mother’s death.
Keep up the great work!!!




This was a great reminder of what really matters in life.
Indeed. This story and all that has happened over the past couple of days should serve as the greatest of reminders how fleeting everything in life is.
You need to enjoy things as they come because you never know when they will be gone. I know that a lot of people forget that or don’t believe it, but anyone with their eyes truly open know it to be true.
I’m sorry for your loss Tina. It sounds like your mom was great.
Well said, Jim. Thanks for sharing your story with us, Tina.
Great comments that I know Tina will appreciate. Has kind of put Nerlens’ injury in perspective
Thanks for sharing,I agree some times our fans including my DAD forget these are just young kids. GoCats and always Go Blue!
Tina, my heart aches for you in the loss of your mother. Thanks so much for sharing your story with us fans. I live and breath UK basketball during the season and my family puts up with me much like your mother did you. God bless and go CATS!